Being Single with Flu...

It’s been exactly a month since my last post which is not good. I never intended such a long break and as all the books tell me you’re supposed to write first thing in the morning, everday – I haven’t got off to a good start. But, bear with me – I’m a beginner Blogger and hope to get better at this. Many thanks to all of you who have said such good things about this site, and made me glad I found the time to get it up and running. And congratulations to Boobyloobs who won the Champagne for November! Another bottle being given away in December - check our the home page for details.

I know this site is all about the positive side of being single, but staying positive with full blown Flu has been somewhat challenging! However, as any single Mum will know, life goes on with or without a temperature and as both my Teenagers have full on schedules and social lives, I have done the usual school/college/dance/drama/football runs mostly in my pyjamas under a full length fur coat (God, what would I do without that coat?) and Ugg boots. I have fallen asleep in at least 3 car parks – woken up once by a Teacher to tell me my son was in detention which was great news as that gave me an extra 20 minutes to snooze.

Being single and sick can be lonely and it could have been quite easy to feel sorry for myself with no-one to make me Soup, Tea, bring me Medicine, Flowers & Magazines or even to ask if I was feeling better. However, the positives are…No-one to moan about the heating being on full, the bed not being made, the overflowing washing basket, And of course no-one to see un-washed hair and washed out skin and minging pyjamas!

Anyway – back to normal (well as normal as my life is likely to get) juggling 50 things at once to get ready for Christmas and making sure my diary is filling up with nice places to go and nice people to see. If you’re on your own I think it’s really important to decide at the beginning of December to try your hardest to enjoy the festive season, or it could be a very miserable month. This will be my 6th ‘Single Christmas’ and it’s not all bad :)